Sunday, August 24, 2008

chalk and cheese!

marriage is a beautiful union of two hearts they say!really!nah!it requires a lot and lot of hard work and patience!i dont believe there are any two people made for each other!its all bullshit!u kick,u wriggle ,u writhe and squeeeze urself until u make urself apt for the other person!u tend to get bruised and egos are flattened on the way but who cares-after all we r making everyone happy!but are we happy as a person!after the whole hectic ride we sometimes tend to reallyforget the real person we really were!we dig and dig into our now replenishing memories and there we are with all our follies and weaknesses but yet that carefree and natural smile can never be brought back!is there anyone on earth who really loves us as we really are!

1 comment:

Nila said...

Marriage is an institution and so as is with any institution it needs a lotta planning,organising and working out to make it successful.Give and take becomes the thumb rule or say the grease to keep the wheels rolling!Yet,inspite of it all...one can still have their core personality remain intact !Small nothings which mean a lot and go a long way in LIVING life (like eating kuchi ice or playing gilli)can still be a part of life...if one doesn't care to ACT mature!One can still be ones own self and smile away to glory!There could be just a few who would love us just the way we are...say our parents and our friends!!So,though we are pushed to play out ACTS in life we can still stay out bubbling self ..if not for anyone..just for ourselves! LOVE,LIVE the moments..as it comes ..when it comes..the way it comes!:-)